well after doing my own little investigation after tearing it apart. The bolt holding the from muffler mount to the frame had backed itself out and was no longer even on the bike, that started some excess vibration and snapped the stud, which then caused even more vibration and snapped the header right in two. Almost got all the parts together to rebuild. Had my muffler redone by Randy at Hawk Performance, drilled out the stud on a bridgeport without the fucking jig, putting all new OEM parts on the exhaust (gaskets, header, studs, straps, flanges etc.) K&N air filter, new windscreen, new plugs, and in the process of figuring out how to make this ECM stuff happen. Thanks for all your help guys, I do appreciate all the advice. I will get some more pics up if I can.