PLEASE ANYONE WANTING TO CHIME IN, I need major help!!! My story begins many months ago with the girl I have been dating and I have been in love with for just as long if not longer (i was actually in love with her before we were even dating). Its been three years, a few months, and few days, but hey who's counting right?? Slowly over the past few weeks i feel like our relationship has been on the decline. I work a 12 day shift and she works a 12 hour night shift, so our work schedules aren't really conveniant right now. There is other stuff though. I know in my gut that she's messing around with another dude, or maybe even multiple dudes. I saw two numbers in her iphone call log that weren't saved in her address book. I didn't want to call them but i did text them and the response made me believe they were "good friends." Im sure she has cleaned up her inbox of text messages to get rid of the ones i don't want to see since shes obviously smart. There was even this one time i answered her phone while she was in the shower and nobody responded, they just hung up. Not to mention, one night she said she was going out with the girls to have a few drinks but when she came home whomever gave her a ride squeeled the tires to get outta dodge before she was even in the door. BUT DON'T WORRY, i am smarter than her!! i keep the fireBOLT on the front patio sometimes, and decided i was going to catch her right in the act. I was going to kneel down behind my bike so she wouldn't see me, and jump out from behind the bike and see if the driver was a guy or a girl to confirm my anxious suspicion. It would absolutly kill me to know shes dickin around with some other doosh-cockin-****-stick. Shes my world and I don't want to lose her. I don't think I could ever love anyone as much as I love this girl. However when i went to execute my "hide behind the Firebolt plan" i saw a small area of oil residue right around the head gasket, should i get this checked out at my local dealership or am i just overreacting?? I only have 8000 miles so i dont think i should be worried about a rebuild yet right??