ocgreenmachine... if you're still having your problem, check the shape of your connectors. When I did this mod, I ended up deformed one or all of my connecters. As a result, once reassembled, the connectors were no longer making contact with the pins in the female plug. I took it back apart and and tried to reshaped each connecter with needle nose pliers, but this was to no avail. I made it worse, I went from just having hi-beams like you to having no lights! After some tinkering, I realized the problem was the connectors were no longer making contact. I fixed it by reassembling the male plug and then stuffing a small amount of wire down each individual terminal inside the male plug and connecting the plugs.
Alternately, you could use posi-connectors or solder for a less "hacked" solution... but I didn't have that stuff handy and wanted it to work now! Either way, mine works great now. Although I do somewhat lament the loss of the hi-beam flash button.