One of the biggest problems I had with the Buell/HD was the fact that the asses working at the Harley shop laughed at me when asking for parts or anything else buell related, about 120 and 180 miles from where i lived was buell dealerships, well guess what, I got the same treatment from those rednecks, if it isnt black chrome or have a number 3 on it these pricks wouldnt give me the time of day
I firmly believe this is an individual dealership issue. My local HD dealer was/is very Buell friendly, and I've been treated with the same respect as any other customer every time I've walked into the shop or talked to the employees on the phone.
I personally like HDs, and I will probably own one when I'm older. I don't get all wrapped up in the "biker" image; I just don't worry about it.
FWIW, I am a BMW tech, so I'm fully aware of stereotypes. I love BMWs...they're incredible cars, but honestly, a lot of people that own them are exactly what you'd expect - stereotypical image-conscious folks that don't care about anything except the blue and white badge on the hood. All they are interested in is OWNING, and being seen in, their BMW. These kind of people exist in all walks of society, whether it's cars, clothes, or hanging out in a "cool" bar. Although RUB/Wannabe biker HD owners exist in a different part of society, they're EXACTLY the same type of people that would buy a BMW to bolster their image.
I've heard/read countless stories of how badly Buell owners were treated at HD dealerships. I believe in some cases, I've only heard one side of the story. If you walk into a business with a chip on your shoulder, ("man, I hate these dirtballs with the chaps and do-rags" ) don't expect to be treated with kindness or respect.
Some Buell owners are/were incredibly put off by the HD relationship. Perhaps they themselves were worrying a bit too much about being seen in an HD dealership or associating with "biker" types.
I was attracted to my Buell BECAUSE of the HD relationship. I loved the concept of an HD-based product that actually handled. I think HD make a HUGE mistake by discontinuing Buell, especially the air-cooled bikes.
I worked at the parts department of a Honda dealership when I was young. I used to stare at the showroom of bikes all day long. CR and XR dirt bikes, Hurricanes, Interceptors (I'm dating myself here), and Magnas and Shadows, Nighthawks, etc. Whatever kind of riding interested you, there was something there for you. I always thought that HD should have persued that path, and I felt they were starting to head in that direction with Buell. It's ashame they pulled the plug. Maybe things might change in the future, who knows...
I'm stepping off the soap box now.