Congrads you two. My wife and I will be celebrating our 15th year in Sept. Just remember with the wedding, its about you two and its your day. We still have friends to this day that said our wedding was the best one they have ever been to. It was all outside, we had hambergers, hot dogs, wings, etc. and we had 250 on the guest list. We had our family asking about providing veg. meals for the vegges. We didn't, spend a bunch of extra money for a few people. They had to deal. We had a party, not a reception. Heck, I got married in tux top, shorts and Chucks. Just do what you want and most important have a good time.